Friday, July 28, 2017

July 28 - Massachusetts


Another short-ish post this evening. I could not write one for my brother without adding one for my most supportive encouraging sister!

My sister is the youngest; there were four of us growing up. She was quite ill for quite awhile when she was young, and my parents worried a great deal. As the eldest, so did I. I used to sneak downstairs to listen to their conversations sometimes (hey - what kid has not?).

I used to sit in a nook upstairs with her and hold her tightly and tell her stories. I wanted to ease her pain, even if just for a bit. I made the stories up in my head as we went along. I think, I hope, it helped.

We grew older and apart for awhile, as so often happens. She moved out of state and returned home several years later. We came back together, our relationship matured and took on a more solid meaning.

My sister has always been there for me, through thick and thin. This past winter - she and her significant other generously opened up their home in Maine for me after the fire so the kitties and I had a nice warm place to stay. Our relationship shifted a bit over the winter - I have mentioned that several times. For the better.

She is very left-brain oriented (numbers, analytical stuff), I am very right-brain oriented (writing, painting stuff). Yet we so easily mesh together. Always.




We share so much, yet are so opposite... when she was working so hard for her Master's degree and needed a PowerPoint presentation there were nights I stayed up past my bedtime to ensure she had it. Her patience explaining just what the heck I was trying to represent (you and your numbers, Sis!).

We have always been there for each other :)

My sister loves to shop. Me? Not so much. But I rely on her when searching for that perfect outfit or pair of shoes :) She never steers  me wrong. She gets quite determined when I tell her what I am seeking.

I do have to mention, however, she has a terrible sense of direction. When they invented the saying "can't find the way out of a paper bag", I do believe they had my little sister in mind. Good grief. That is about all I can safely say!

The trips we have taken together, the laughs.... the sorrow, the joy. The heart-to-hearts. No one can share it like a sister. She has always encouraged and supported me. Like me, she pulls absolutely no punches! She is a fellow redhead.

Once again - luck of the draw. I could not have chosen a better sister if offered. She is the best! I love you, Sis. Could not make it without ya :)

1 comment:

  1. Its nice you have a good relationship with your brother & sister. Ive enjoyed reading the posts. I'm keeping up. Sounds like things are going good. I'm glad. Like the flower pix too.
    Peter

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